A Vow is a solemn promised made, pledged or personal commitment. A marriage vow is a promised made or personal commitment willfully made by two people who have agreed to join together in holy matrimony during weding ceremony. Vows can be broken as a result of several reasons and factors.
Reasons for broken vows.
1. Domestic abuse and violence. This is one of the common cause of broken vows among partners that are into relationship.
2. Infidelity, and breach of trust. Unfaithfulness can make a couple break his or her marital vows.
3. Barrenness.
4. Undue pressure from family members, friends, and relatives.
No matter the qualities, attributes, and perfect a spouse is, if one of them is not working for the sustainability of the marriage, then divorce, and breakup is inevitable.
Post Marriage Preparation.
Wedlock is only ceremony but marriage is a lifelong commitment between two individuals. When the honeymoon is over, couples are faced with the realities of life like dealing with in-laws, friends etc.
Marriages can be challenging in several ways, and as couples it is important for them to have post marriage preparation and some of these preparations are as follows,
1. Unconditional love and care for your spouse. Couples should have unconditional love, and care for their spouse irrespective of the challenges that may unfold after marriage.
2. Always say please and thank you. Saying thank you and please has a way of adding value to your marriage.
3. Public commendation, and private correction. Sometimes we make mistakes in life. As as a couple commending your spouse in public will boost her love and commitment to you. Alternatively, correcting your spouse privately shows that you have respect, and value for your partner and makes them look special, appreciated, and valued.
4. Be selfless. Selflessness in marriage bond couples together.
5. Build trust and have confidence for each other.
6. Manage your finance, and money together.
Develop good relationship with your in-laws.
Marriage vow should be made with caution in other not to have a broken marriage.
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